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everything you love is here

Let me just say- I have truly loved a number of people, and I tried to find that one reason to stay. By doing so, I compromised my own integrity and lost myself.

I have stayed in emotionally, verbally, and (one time) physically abusive relationships because I deeply loved the person and didn’t want to give up on them. I realised one day that just because I love them this way, doesn’t mean they love me or would ever do the same. I came out stronger by choosing to give myself the love I deserved since I wasn’t getting it from my partner.

The notion that “true love” is shown by total and complete self-sacrifice is absurd and unrealistic. It’s okay to make mutual compromises, and it’s okay to not get along sometimes. It is not okay to perpetuate the myth that if you love someone, then you MUST be willing to betray your own needs and desires. Every relationship has its own balance, and it’s up to you to know where your tipping point is.

If choosing to stay in a relationship is toxic or detrimental to your physical/mental health and/or safety in some way- please find a way out.

I’ve discovered there’s a lot you can do inside haunted houses.

fictionalfeather:

For example, you can:

  • be in a shampoo commercial

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  • start a boy band:

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  • spot some choice booty:

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  • break into song:

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  • see some people in frankly offensive outfits:

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  • attend a metal show:

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  • listen to some sick jams:

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  • discover zombieism:

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  • sample some tasty snacks:

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  • watch someone get burned bad:

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  • find something you really like:

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  • find something you really, really like:

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  • find something you REALLY REALLY LIKE:

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  • and wonder if you left the stove on:

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